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I\u2019ve wanted to get a massage for awhile, but I\u2019m nervous. I don\u2019t know much about\u00a0finding the right\u00a0massage therapist, including whether I can limit my selection to a particular gender. I\u2019m a woman, and I don\u2019t think I would be comfortable if my massage therapist was a man. Is there some way I can avoid having a male massage therapist?<\/p>

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Absolutely! You always have the power to choose the massage therapist you want, and the gender of their massage therapist is one of the first criteria for many massage clients. It\u2019s easy to understand why. A stranger rubbing oil on your skin creates a level of intimacy that makes\u00a0some people uncomfortable.<\/p>

Most Massage Therapist Are Females<\/h2>

The reality is that women make up an overwhelming percentage of massage therapists, if you look at the membership of the three largest professional organizations. The American Massage Therapy Association<\/a> reports that 84 percent of its members are female, with the Associated Bodywork Professionals and the National Certification Board for Therapeutic Massage and Bodywork reporting similar figures (83 percent and 82 percent, respectively).[1]<\/sup> This massive gender gap has made it difficult for male massage therapists to find clients, and many male massage therapists have reported losing work because of their gender.[2]<\/sup><\/p>

Female Masage Therapist Are Often Preferred<\/h2>

Many women prefer female massage therapists simply because they feel closer to other women, a sense that they are kindred spirits. But most female clients polled by a writer for Massage Bodywork magazine brought up sex as the real issue they chose a female therapist over a man. These women were concerned that a male therapist would be looking at their bodies, or thinking about sex while working on them.[3]<\/sup> To get the full benefit of a massage, you have to trust your massage therapist. If you don\u2019t feel you can trust a male massage therapist, you are entirely within your rights to avoid them.<\/p>

It\u2019s worth noting that all massage therapists are professionals and will respect any boundaries you set. You don\u2019t have to fully disrobe if you\u2019re not comfortable being nude \u2013 your massage therapist will respect that. If you do fully disrobe, you will be draped with a sheet or towel to cover the private parts of your body. You should also keep in mind that you can have your massage therapist come to you, so you can get your massage in a setting where you already feel comfortable.<\/p>

Whether male or female, it\u2019s important to talk to your massage therapist before the session and carefully delineate your boundaries. If you feel uncomfortable at any time during the massage, speak up. A massage should be a pleasurable and relaxing experience, and if you\u2019re tense or embarrassed you won\u2019t get the full benefit.<\/p>

References:<\/strong><\/p>

[1]<\/sup> Associated Bodywork & Massage Professionals: \u201cMale Bodyworker Issues<\/em>\u201d http:\/\/www.massagetherapy.com\/articles\/index.php\/article_id\/726\/Male-Bodyworker-Issues<\/p>

[2]<\/sup> Id.<\/em><\/p>

[3]<\/sup> Associated Bodywork & Massage Professionals: \u201cGender in the Profession<\/em>\u201d http:\/\/www.massagetherapy.com\/articles\/index.php\/article_id\/1376\/Gender-in-the-Profession<\/p>

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Is Avoiding a Male Massage Therapist as a Female Client Ok? Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Reddit Question: I\u2019ve wanted to get a massage for awhile, but I\u2019m nervous. I don\u2019t know much about\u00a0finding the right\u00a0massage therapist, including whether I can limit my selection to a particular gender. I\u2019m a woman, and I don\u2019t think I would […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"parent":75683,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":"","_elementor_edit_mode":"builder","_elementor_template_type":"wp-page","_elementor_data":"[{\"id\":\"6261e392\",\"elType\":\"section\",\"settings\":{\"eael_parallax_layers_list\":[]},\"elements\":[{\"id\":\"eb25a11\",\"elType\":\"column\",\"settings\":{\"_column_size\":100,\"_inline_size\":null},\"elements\":[],\"isInner\":false}],\"isInner\":false},{\"id\":\"35005f1a\",\"elType\":\"section\",\"settings\":{\"eael_parallax_layers_list\":[]},\"elements\":[{\"id\":\"56390870\",\"elType\":\"column\",\"settings\":{\"_column_size\":100,\"_inline_size\":null},\"elements\":[{\"id\":\"770593ed\",\"elType\":\"widget\",\"settings\":{\"title\":\"Is Avoiding a Male Massage Therapist as a Female Client Ok?\\n\",\"header_size\":\"h1\",\"align\":\"center\",\"title_color\":\"#14316C\",\"typography_typography\":\"custom\",\"typography_font_family\":\"Poppins\",\"typography_font_size\":{\"unit\":\"px\",\"size\":30,\"sizes\":[]},\"typography_font_weight\":\"600\",\"eael_tooltip_section_content\":\"I am a tooltip\",\"eael_ext_content_protection_password_placeholder\":\"Enter Password\",\"eael_ext_content_protection_password_submit_btn_txt\":\"Submit\",\"eael_ext_content_protection_password_incorrect_message\":\"Password does not match.\"},\"elements\":[],\"widgetType\":\"heading\"},{\"id\":\"6d5eeadb\",\"elType\":\"widget\",\"settings\":{\"eael_tooltip_section_content\":\"I am a tooltip\",\"eael_ext_content_protection_password_placeholder\":\"Enter Password\",\"eael_ext_content_protection_password_submit_btn_txt\":\"Submit\",\"eael_ext_content_protection_password_incorrect_message\":\"Password does not match.\"},\"elements\":[],\"widgetType\":\"spacer\"}],\"isInner\":false}],\"isInner\":false},{\"id\":\"7118c859\",\"elType\":\"section\",\"settings\":{\"eael_parallax_layers_list\":[]},\"elements\":[{\"id\":\"670a3a4\",\"elType\":\"column\",\"settings\":{\"_column_size\":100,\"_inline_size\":null},\"elements\":[{\"id\":\"6bd6cac3\",\"elType\":\"widget\",\"settings\":{\"text\":\"Divider\",\"eael_tooltip_section_content\":\"I am a tooltip\",\"eael_ext_content_protection_password_placeholder\":\"Enter Password\",\"eael_ext_content_protection_password_submit_btn_txt\":\"Submit\",\"eael_ext_content_protection_password_incorrect_message\":\"Password does not match.\"},\"elements\":[],\"widgetType\":\"divider\"}],\"isInner\":false}],\"isInner\":false},{\"id\":\"2b63e1c9\",\"elType\":\"section\",\"settings\":{\"eael_parallax_layers_list\":[]},\"elements\":[{\"id\":\"726b3a21\",\"elType\":\"column\",\"settings\":{\"_column_size\":100,\"_inline_size\":null},\"elements\":[{\"id\":\"565ec374\",\"elType\":\"widget\",\"settings\":{\"share_buttons\":[{\"_id\":\"177a087\"},{\"button\":\"twitter\",\"_id\":\"821e691\"},{\"button\":\"linkedin\",\"_id\":\"280d314\"},{\"_id\":\"8f9e41a\",\"button\":\"reddit\"}],\"alignment\":\"left\",\"eael_tooltip_section_content\":\"I am a tooltip\",\"eael_ext_content_protection_password_placeholder\":\"Enter Password\",\"eael_ext_content_protection_password_submit_btn_txt\":\"Submit\",\"eael_ext_content_protection_password_incorrect_message\":\"Password does not match.\"},\"elements\":[],\"widgetType\":\"share-buttons\"}],\"isInner\":false}],\"isInner\":false},{\"id\":\"478270d7\",\"elType\":\"section\",\"settings\":{\"eael_parallax_layers_list\":[],\"structure\":\"22\"},\"elements\":[{\"id\":\"4893efe4\",\"elType\":\"column\",\"settings\":{\"_column_size\":66,\"_inline_size\":null},\"elements\":[{\"id\":\"6f80c1fd\",\"elType\":\"widget\",\"settings\":{\"editor\":\"

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I\\u2019ve wanted to get a massage for awhile, but I\\u2019m nervous. I don\\u2019t know much about\\u00a0finding the right\\u00a0massage therapist, including whether I can limit my selection to a particular gender. I\\u2019m a woman, and I don\\u2019t think I would be comfortable if my massage therapist was a man. Is there some way I can avoid having a male massage therapist?<\\\/p>

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Absolutely! You always have the power to choose the massage therapist you want, and the gender of their massage therapist is one of the first criteria for many massage clients. It\\u2019s easy to understand why. A stranger rubbing oil on your skin creates a level of intimacy that makes\\u00a0some people uncomfortable.<\\\/p>

Most Massage Therapist Are Females<\\\/h2>

The reality is that women make up an overwhelming percentage of massage therapists, if you look at the membership of the three largest professional organizations. The American Massage Therapy Association<\\\/a> reports that 84 percent of its members are female, with the Associated Bodywork Professionals and the National Certification Board for Therapeutic Massage and Bodywork reporting similar figures (83 percent and 82 percent, respectively).[1]<\\\/sup> This massive gender gap has made it difficult for male massage therapists to find clients, and many male massage therapists have reported losing work because of their gender.[2]<\\\/sup><\\\/p>

Female Masage Therapist Are Often Preferred<\\\/h2>

Many women prefer female massage therapists simply because they feel closer to other women, a sense that they are kindred spirits. But most female clients polled by a writer for Massage Bodywork magazine brought up sex as the real issue they chose a female therapist over a man. These women were concerned that a male therapist would be looking at their bodies, or thinking about sex while working on them.[3]<\\\/sup> To get the full benefit of a massage, you have to trust your massage therapist. If you don\\u2019t feel you can trust a male massage therapist, you are entirely within your rights to avoid them.<\\\/p>

It\\u2019s worth noting that all massage therapists are professionals and will respect any boundaries you set. You don\\u2019t have to fully disrobe if you\\u2019re not comfortable being nude \\u2013 your massage therapist will respect that. If you do fully disrobe, you will be draped with a sheet or towel to cover the private parts of your body. You should also keep in mind that you can have your massage therapist come to you, so you can get your massage in a setting where you already feel comfortable.<\\\/p>

Whether male or female, it\\u2019s important to talk to your massage therapist before the session and carefully delineate your boundaries. If you feel uncomfortable at any time during the massage, speak up. A massage should be a pleasurable and relaxing experience, and if you\\u2019re tense or embarrassed you won\\u2019t get the full benefit.<\\\/p>

References:<\\\/strong><\\\/p>

[1]<\\\/sup> Associated Bodywork & Massage Professionals: \\u201cMale Bodyworker Issues<\\\/em>\\u201d http:\\\/\\\/www.massagetherapy.com\\\/articles\\\/index.php\\\/article_id\\\/726\\\/Male-Bodyworker-Issues<\\\/p>

[2]<\\\/sup> Id.<\\\/em><\\\/p>

[3]<\\\/sup> Associated Bodywork & Massage Professionals: \\u201cGender in the Profession<\\\/em>\\u201d http:\\\/\\\/www.massagetherapy.com\\\/articles\\\/index.php\\\/article_id\\\/1376\\\/Gender-in-the-Profession<\\\/p>

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